Monday, May 22, 2017

There´s a will and there´s a way

Sitting here, sun is shining and I´m wondering life. I saw doc last Friday, he confirmed that I´m tired. Yes, I needed someone to assure me that I had a real reason to that. 
Sounds funny, but somehow I was still thinking, did I just overthough things. I mean...11 years and I started to wonder, how long has this double life been going on. How much of my life was a lie and how was there a truth somewhere. 
That put me so down, kept me so tired..still kind of doing it, but feeling a bit stronger. 

Not gonna lie, my body is taking this strongly, my heart does this jumps and a small panic is around the corner. But. I have, against my odds, feeling that I´m starting to heal..slowly. I´m finding small strength again, real slowly but surely. 

I´m starting to understand, that I do matter. My life matters. My dreams matters and my feelings matters. Those are kind of new things to me. 

Sometimes waking up is at first so hard, but after some time... also empowering. 

I do have a will to survive. I will find my way. 

That I have to remember. And I actually do believe in that. I know, that there´s still so much to face, so much to overcome but....in the end... I will survive. 

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Need to remember that.....



Thursday, May 18, 2017

Waking up

There´s a moment in everyone´s life, that makes you drop to bottom or/and wake. I have had my share of those moments, but yet and again..one more. I use to say, cheat me once and I´m gone. But.. well..now I´m not. I have, maybe learned, grew up or just got more stupid. That I don´t know. But anyway, here I am and have suffered one week, again.
This last week has been full of emotions, I have been disappointed, angry, sad, mad, down, crying, having some issues with my heart. I actually was thinking, that there´s something wrong with me. Yep, I was (now I´m in the edge) in bottom. Now, indeed, feeling a bit shattered but some new feeling is waking inside of me.

Some small, light, shallow feeling of strength. Some shallow feeling of better me. Thought that I do deserve good things, to be me, to be free without shame or fear. I deserve to be me and do those things that I like. I´m not in that part yet, to figures what I really like but something inside of me is whispering: you will know....

I have lived mostly like I like. Mostly. I have kept, still, so much under the rock too. I have lived like is expected: being a good woman and acting like one. And no, not gonna be bad, no! But there´s such a passion to write, dress up, talk, walk like I use to. I have always been such a wild child. Keeping that away has been tough, missed that part of me.

It took this episode to open my eyes and realize: why the hell not? Why not do those things that my heart has whispered such a long time... me ignoring myself.

You see, my biggest "problem" is, I like to take care of others too much. Thinking that not hurting, or don´t wanna upset too much. Instead I did that to myself, but I suck it up too easily. That wasn´t too big thing to worry about. No? Me? Yep, way to go. Of course I should matter to me.

Still kind of confused, how to survive, how to continue, but just maybe..life goes on.

xoxox