Monday, May 22, 2017

There´s a will and there´s a way

Sitting here, sun is shining and I´m wondering life. I saw doc last Friday, he confirmed that I´m tired. Yes, I needed someone to assure me that I had a real reason to that. 
Sounds funny, but somehow I was still thinking, did I just overthough things. I mean...11 years and I started to wonder, how long has this double life been going on. How much of my life was a lie and how was there a truth somewhere. 
That put me so down, kept me so tired..still kind of doing it, but feeling a bit stronger. 

Not gonna lie, my body is taking this strongly, my heart does this jumps and a small panic is around the corner. But. I have, against my odds, feeling that I´m starting to heal..slowly. I´m finding small strength again, real slowly but surely. 

I´m starting to understand, that I do matter. My life matters. My dreams matters and my feelings matters. Those are kind of new things to me. 

Sometimes waking up is at first so hard, but after some time... also empowering. 

I do have a will to survive. I will find my way. 

That I have to remember. And I actually do believe in that. I know, that there´s still so much to face, so much to overcome but....in the end... I will survive. 

Kuvahaun tulos haulle quotes about surviving hard times
Need to remember that.....



Thursday, May 18, 2017

Waking up

There´s a moment in everyone´s life, that makes you drop to bottom or/and wake. I have had my share of those moments, but yet and again..one more. I use to say, cheat me once and I´m gone. But.. well..now I´m not. I have, maybe learned, grew up or just got more stupid. That I don´t know. But anyway, here I am and have suffered one week, again.
This last week has been full of emotions, I have been disappointed, angry, sad, mad, down, crying, having some issues with my heart. I actually was thinking, that there´s something wrong with me. Yep, I was (now I´m in the edge) in bottom. Now, indeed, feeling a bit shattered but some new feeling is waking inside of me.

Some small, light, shallow feeling of strength. Some shallow feeling of better me. Thought that I do deserve good things, to be me, to be free without shame or fear. I deserve to be me and do those things that I like. I´m not in that part yet, to figures what I really like but something inside of me is whispering: you will know....

I have lived mostly like I like. Mostly. I have kept, still, so much under the rock too. I have lived like is expected: being a good woman and acting like one. And no, not gonna be bad, no! But there´s such a passion to write, dress up, talk, walk like I use to. I have always been such a wild child. Keeping that away has been tough, missed that part of me.

It took this episode to open my eyes and realize: why the hell not? Why not do those things that my heart has whispered such a long time... me ignoring myself.

You see, my biggest "problem" is, I like to take care of others too much. Thinking that not hurting, or don´t wanna upset too much. Instead I did that to myself, but I suck it up too easily. That wasn´t too big thing to worry about. No? Me? Yep, way to go. Of course I should matter to me.

Still kind of confused, how to survive, how to continue, but just maybe..life goes on.

xoxox

Monday, March 20, 2017

Sometimes it´s hard to be a woman

Or person. Just..human. I decided to write here again, after I have written for so long other blog. That is ok..not good or bad, ok blog. The problem has been with me, that I haven´t done it actually the way I want. I tried too much to be something else.

In these time, when social media is on top and it is demanding, I decided that I shall use picture that I don´t fix. You know, no photoshop or so. Also, I try my best to tell about my life as it is, not as I want it to be. Like, shopping, staying in great spas or so. My being here in earth is all about family, training, food, fighting against my own head (small age crisis) you know, ups and downs. Like we all have. But I want more...well, "ugly" pictures and not too fancy things. Ok, sometimes, of course there will be some awesome clothes (In my opinion) and make ups. I love those things as much I love to drive fast cars and being dirty in back yard. Fixing yard, what did you think? :D

I train hard, 9h per week. 4 hours walking/ running and 4 to gym. But I´m not a fitness- type, I love goodies too much. Also, I´m in to power. I enjoy to lift hard, love to be strong. Not gonna post gym selfies here, no. Maybe something, how I am progressing with weights or so, but that´s it. I think.

Also, I´m Gemini by horoscope so I might change my mind about that.

Main thing is: no matter how old you are, what size you are, what color you are...be fab. Be your own best. Be you. 

I hate, if someone say´s to me: Too old for that shi#. I´m not gonna be too old to celebrate birthdays. Or smaller things. Not too old to wear what ever I want. Not too old to have fun. Not too old to listen my music loud in car. Not too old for anything! 

So, even if I´m turning 46years, I wanna be free to live as I want. So..are you with me on this?

Time to hit the gym, I have in this week my test, how much I can lift in 5 RM. Today, deadlift. Not too sure, how much I shall put weight in 5 lifts..we´ll see! Wish me luck force. It´s not about luck, it´s more about me against me.

Good book, makes me feel like a pro ;)